GIG 193 - It's Not About Keeping the Rules

A recent Barna survey found that "most Christians equate spiritual maturity with following the rules." But if you've listened to this program for any amount of time, you know that we don't believe that the Christian life is about following the rules, and this week we talk about how to not let "Christian rules" rule your life.

We find it quite amazing that Christians continue clinging to laws, rules and commandments, when that's what God has set us free from! So we take some time to discuss how the Christian life isn't about doing things for God but rather about us being in Him, and Him in us. It's not about doing. It's about being. We take a look at how many people are actually being "compliant" by trying to follow God's laws - which anyone can do, whether filled with God's life or not. The key word there is "trying," and so we also discuss the difference between "trying" and simply "trusting."

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Don't rush growth - baseball illustration

When I talk about 'spiritual growth' or 'spiritual maturity,' I'm simply talking about growing in grace - growing in the knowing and expressing of who we already are in Christ. I've talked a lot in the past about "slow growth" and "natural growth," etc. I've talked about enjoying where we are in our individual journeys, and not trying to rush the growth process. Last night I listened to an incredible illustration of this while I was watching baseball.

St. Louis Cardinals rookie outfielder Colby Rasmus hit a home run - his fourth of the young season. That's great for the Cardinals, of course, but I was then floored as I listened to the commentators talk about how the team's management and trainers have been working with Rasmus to "not get too home run conscious." I was in awe of the team's logic, as they are taking time to work with young Rasmus to develop him as a Major League player.

See, Rasmus is only 22 years old. He signed into baseball right out of high school (far from a common thing). He spent his first few years in the Minor Leauges, and this is his first season (rookie season) in the Major Leagues. The commentators said that the team is still working to establish Rasmus as a Major League player. He IS a Major League player, but they are working to establish and develop his particular role as a player. And it's gonna take time. He's gonna make mistakes and he's gonna learn.

At the present time, the team is working to establish him not as a home run hitter, but as a line drive hitter. Essentially, a line drive hit can get you on base and can also advance or score runners who are already on base. The team believes that eventually Rasmus will be a home run hitter, perhaps hitting 20 to 25 home runs per season. But here's the interesting phrase that the commentators used. The team wants to "mature him into a home run hitter" (as opposed to putting a lot of emphasis now on hitting home runs). I'm sure there are many reasons for this, not the least of which would be that if he gets too "home run conscious," his overall hitting may not develop properly. If he takes time to develop his skills as a line drive hitter, his overall hitting - including home runs - will become more natural.

As our heavenly Father is rooting us and establishing us in His love and grace, and as He's developing us and forming the life of Christ in us over a period of a lifetime, it's OK to be right where we're at. In fact, it's not only OK - it's essential for our overall development that we remain right where we are and not try to force growth. Let God develop your "line drive." The "home runs" will come naturally in time. Ahhh.... relax!

Barna: "Most Christians equate spiritual maturity with following the rules."

In addition to the various Performance-Based Acceptance stories that were shared the other day, I came across a couple of other things that sadly put the emphasis on outward performance when it comes to "growing spiritually" or "spiritual maturity" (or really, life in Christ in general).

The other day I was listening to a Christian talk show that a good grace-man like me really shouldn't be listening to... hahaha... pardon the sarcastic irony. :) No need to mention the program itself, but the call was about a woman who had a 'roadblock' in her marriage. Her "problem" was that she was "growing spiritually" but her husband wasn't. Now I'm not oblivious at all to the desire of having our loved ones alongside us on our journey, and us with them on their journey. But I don't think that's what was being conveyed in this woman's story.

I got the impression that she was becoming more involved in the traditional outward aspects of "doing" the Christian life (" spiritual disciplines?") and he was not "growing" (so-called) at the same pace. Perhaps she was reading her Bible more, going to church more, praying more, being involved in activities more, showing more interest in the things of God, etc, etc. And gee golly, for some reason the husband was simply not as interested.

I then read a blog post called Spiritual Maturity, that links to these findings from the Barna Group. Highlighted on this blog post is this disturbing quote from Barna's findings: "Most Christians equate spiritual maturity with following the rules."

In the various Performance-Based Acceptance stories that were shared the other day, this seemed to be touched on quite a bit as well, in one form or another, including a quote from In Christ Alone's story. Speaking of the various denominations that she'd been a part of, she said, "It was just always about rules and ways to act and be and becoming holy somehow by doing this and that."

I'm sure you have thoughts on all this. What do you think? What I believe is that growing in maturity means that a person has truly understood the love and grace of God - not just in the mind but in the heart - and is "growing" in basking in it and appropriating it and in having Christ's life in them naturally expressing itself through love and grace towards others. How's that for a nutshell definition? :) So if a person is truly maturing in the Christ-life, would the stale lives of their loved ones be a "problem," or would it be an opportunity to share the love and grace of God all the more as Christ manifests His life all the more?